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014 - הִלְכוֹת אִסּוּרֵי בִּיאָה פֵּרֶק יד

Hilchos Issurei Bi'ah, Perek 14

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הִלְכוֹת אִסּוּרֵי בִּיאָה פֵּרֶק יד

א כֵּיצַד מְקַבְּלִין גֵּרֵי הַצֶּדֶק: כְּשֶׁיָּבוֹא לְהִתְגַּיַר, וְיִבְדְּקוּ אַחֲרָיו וְלֹא יִמְצְאוּ עִלָּה--אוֹמְרִים לוֹ, מַה רָאִיתָ שֶׁבָּאתָ לְהִתְגַּיַר, אֵי אַתָּה יוֹדֵעַ שֶׁיִּשְׂרָאֵל בַּזְּמָן הַזֶּה דָּוִים דְּחוּפִים וּמְסֻחָפִין וּמְטֹרָפִין, וְיִסּוּרִין בָּאִין עֲלֵיהֶן; אָמַר אֲנִי יוֹדֵעַ, וַאֲנִי כְּדַאי--מְקַבְּלִין אוֹתוֹ מִיָּד.

ב וּמוֹדִיעִין אוֹתוֹ עִיקָרֵי הַדָּת, שְׁהוּא יֵחוּד הַשֵּׁם וְאִסּוּר עֲבוֹדָה זָרָה; וּמַאֲרִיכִין, בְּדָבָר זֶה. וּמוֹדִיעִין אוֹתוֹ מִקְצַת מִצְווֹת קַלּוֹת, וּמִקְצַת מִצְווֹת חֲמוּרוֹת; וְאֵין מַאֲרִיכִין, בְּדָבָר זֶה. וּמוֹדִיעִין אוֹתוֹ עָווֹן לֶקֶט שִׁכְחָה וּפֵאָה, וּמַעְשַׂר עָנִי. וּמוֹדִיעִין אוֹתוֹ עָנְשָׁן שֶׁלַּמִּצְווֹת. כֵּיצַד: אוֹמְרִים לוֹ, הֱוֵי יוֹדֵעַ שֶׁעַד שֶׁלֹּא בָאתָ לְדָת זוֹ--אִם אָכַלְתָּ חֵלֶב, אֵי אַתָּה עָנוּשׁ כָּרֵת, אִם חִלַּלְתָּ שַׁבָּת, אֵי אַתָּה עָנוּשׁ סְקֵלָה; וְעַכְשָׁו אַחַר שֶׁתִּתְגַּיַּר--אִם אָכַלְתָּ חֵלֶב, אַתָּה עָנוּשׁ כָּרֵת, אִם חִלַּלְתָּ שַׁבָּת, אַתָּה עָנוּשׁ סְקֵלָה. וְאֵין מַרְבִּין עָלָיו, וְאֵין מְדַקְדְּקִין עָלָיו--שֶׁמֶּא יִגְרֹם לְטָרְדוֹ וּלְהַטּוֹתוֹ מִדֶּרֶךְ טוֹבָה, לְדֶרֶךְ רָעָה: שֶׁבַּתְּחִלָּה, אֵין מוֹשְׁכִין אֶת הָאָדָם אֵלָא בְּדִבְרֵי רָצוֹן רַכִּים; וְכֵן הוּא אוֹמֵר "בְּחַבְלֵי אָדָם אֶמְשְׁכֵם" (הושע יא,ד), וְאַחַר כָּךְ "בַּעֲבֹתוֹת אַהֲבָה" (שם).

ג וּכְשֵׁם שֶׁמּוֹדִיעִין אוֹתוֹ עָנְשָׁן שֶׁלַּמִּצְווֹת, כָּךְ מוֹדִיעִין אוֹתוֹ שְׂכָרָן שֶׁלַּמִּצְווֹת; וּמוֹדִיעִין אוֹתוֹ שֶׁבַּעֲשִׂיַּת מִצְווֹת אֵלּוּ, יִזְכֶּה לְחַיֵּי הָעוֹלָם הַבָּא, וּשְׁאֵין שָׁם צַדִּיק גָּמוּר אֵלָא בַּעַל חָכְמָה שֶׁעוֹשֶׂה מִצְווֹת אֵלּוּ, וְיוֹדְעָן.

ד וְאוֹמְרִים לוֹ, הֱוֵי יוֹדֵעַ שֶׁהָעוֹלָם הַבָּא אֵינוּ צָפוֹן אֵלָא לַצַּדִּיקִים, וְהֶם יִשְׂרָאֵל; וְזֶה שֶׁתִּרְאֶה יִשְׂרָאֵל בְּצַעַר בָּעוֹלָם הַזֶּה, טוֹבָה צְפוּנָה הִיא לָהֶם, שְׁאֵינָן יְכוּלִין לְקַבַּל רֹב טוֹבָה בָּעוֹלָם הַזֶּה, כָּאֻמּוֹת--שֶׁמֶּא יָרוּם לִבָּם וְיִתְעוּ וְיַפְסִידוּ שְׂכַר הָעוֹלָם הַבָּא, כְּעִנְיַן שֶׁנֶּאֱמָר "וַיִּשְׁמַן יְשֻׁרוּן וַיִּבְעָט" (דברים לב,טו).

ה וְאֵין הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא מֵבִיא עֲלֵיהֶן רֹב פֻּרְעָנוּת, כְּדֵי שֶׁלֹּא יֹאבְדוּ, אֵלָא כָּל הָאֻמּוֹת כָּלִין, וְהֶן עוֹמְדִין; וּמַאֲרִיכִין בְּדָבָר זֶה, כְּדֵי לְחַבְּבוֹ.  אִם חָזַר בּוֹ, וְלֹא רָצָה לְקַבַּל--הוֹלֵךְ לְדַרְכּוֹ. וְאִם קִבַּל--אֵין מַשְׁהִין אוֹתוֹ, אֵלָא מָלִין אוֹתוֹ מִיָּד; וְאִם הָיָה מָהוּל, מַטִּיפִין מִמֶּנּוּ דַּם בְּרִית. וּמַשְׁהִים אוֹתוֹ עַד שֶׁיִּתְרַפָּא רְפוּאָה שְׁלֵמָה, וְאַחַר כָּךְ מַטְבִּילִין אוֹתוֹ.

ו וּשְׁלוֹשָׁה עוֹמְדִין עַל גַּבָּיו; וּמוֹדִיעִין אוֹתוֹ מִקְצַת מִצְווֹת קַלּוֹת וּמִקְצַת מִצְווֹת חֲמוּרוֹת פַּעַם שְׁנִיָּה, וְהוּא עוֹמֵד בַּמָּיִם. וְאִם הָיְתָה אִשָּׁה--נָשִׁים מוֹשִׁיבוֹת אוֹתָהּ בַּמַּיִם עַד צַוָּארָהּ, וְהַדַּיָּנִין מִבַּחוּץ. וּמוֹדִיעִין אוֹתָהּ מִקְצַת מִצְווֹת קַלּוֹת וּמִקְצַת מִצְווֹת חֲמוּרוֹת, וְהִיא יוֹשֶׁבֶת בַּמָּיִם; וְאַחַר כָּךְ טוֹבֶלֶת בִּפְנֵיהֶם, וְהֶן מַחְזִירִין פְּנֵיהֶן וְיוֹצְאִין, כְּדֵי שֶׁלֹּא יִרְאוּ אוֹתָהּ, כְּשֶׁתַּעֲלֶה מִן הַמָּיִם.

ז אֵיזֶה הוּא גֵּר תּוֹשָׁב: זֶה גּוֹי שֶׁקִּבַּל עָלָיו שֶׁלֹּא יַעֲבֹד עֲבוֹדָה זָרָה, עִם שְׁאָר הַמִּצְווֹת שֶׁנִּצְטַוּוּ בְּנֵי נוֹחַ, וְלֹא מָל וְלֹא טָבַל--הֲרֵי זֶה מְקַבְּלִין אוֹתוֹ, וַהֲרֵי הוּא מֵחֲסִידֵי אֻמּוֹת הָעוֹלָם; וְלָמָּה נִקְרָא שְׁמוֹ תּוֹשָׁב, לְפִי שֶׁמֻּתָּר לָנוּ לְהוֹשִׁיבוֹ בֵּינֵינוּ בְּאֶרֶץ יִשְׂרָאֵל, כְּמוֹ שֶׁבֵּאַרְנוּ בְּהִלְכּוֹת עֲבוֹדָה זָרָה.

ח וְאֵין מְקַבְּלִין גֵּר תּוֹשָׁב, אֵלָא בִּזְמָן שֶׁהַיּוֹבֵל נוֹהֵג; אֲבָל בַּזְּמָן הַזֶּה, אַפִלּוּ קִבַּל כָּל הַתּוֹרָה כֻּלָּהּ חוּץ מִדִּקְדּוּק אֶחָד--אֵין מְקַבְּלִין אוֹתוֹ.

ט הָעֶבֶד הַנִּלְקָח מִן הַגּוֹיִים--אֵין אוֹמְרִין לוֹ, מַה רָאִיתָ שֶׁבָּאתָ; אֵלָא אוֹמְרִים לוֹ, רְצוֹנָךְ שֶׁתִּכָּנֵס בִּכְלַל עַבְדֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל וְתִהְיֶה מִן הַכְּשֵׁרִים אוֹ לֹא. אִם רָצָה, מוֹדִיעִין אוֹתוֹ עִיקָרֵי הַדָּת וּמִקְצַת מִצְווֹת קַלּוֹת וַחֲמוּרוֹת וְעָנְשָׁן וּשְׂכָרָן, כְּמוֹ שֶׁמּוֹדִיעִין אֶת הַגֵּר; וּמַטְבִּילִין אוֹתוֹ כַּגֵּר, וּמוֹדִיעִין אוֹתוֹ כִּשְׁהוּא בַּמָּיִם. וְאִם לֹא רָצָה לְקַבַּל, מְגַלְגְּלִין עִמּוֹ כָּל שְׁנֵים עָשָׂר חֹדֶשׁ, וּמוֹכְרוֹ לַגּוֹיִים; וְאָסוּר לְקַיְּמוֹ יָתֵר עַל כֵּן. וְאִם הִתְנָה עִמּוֹ מִתְּחִלָּה שֶׁלֹּא יִמּוֹל וְלֹא יִטְבֹּל, אֵלָא יִהְיֶה כְּגֵר תּוֹשָׁב--מֻתָּר לְקַיְּמוֹ בַּעֲבְדוּתוֹ, כִּשְׁהוּא גֵּר תּוֹשָׁב; וְאֵין מְקַיְּמִין עֶבֶד כְּזֶה, אֵלָא בִּזְמָן הַיּוֹבֵל.

י הַגּוֹיִים--אֵין אָסוּר עֲלֵיהֶם מִשּׁוֹם עֶרְוָה אֵלָא אִמּוֹ, וְאֵשֶׁת אָבִיו, וַאֲחוֹתוֹ מֵאִמּוֹ, וְאֵשֶׁת אִישׁ, וְזָכוּר, וּבְהֵמָה, כְּמוֹ שֶׁיִּתְבָּאַר בְּהִלְכּוֹת מְלָכִים וּמִלְחָמוֹת; אֲבָל שְׁאָר עֲרָיוֹת, מֻתָּרוֹת לָהֶן.

יא גֵּר שֶׁנִּתְגַּיַּר וְעֶבֶד שֶׁנִּשְׁתַּחְרַר, הֲרֵי הוּא כְּקָטָן שֶׁנֻּלַּד, וְכָל שְׁאֵר בָּשָׂר שֶׁהָיוּ לוֹ כִּשְׁהוּא גּוֹי אוֹ כִּשְׁהוּא עֶבֶד, אֵינָן שְׁאֵר בָּשָׂר; וְאִם נִתְגַּיַּר הוּא וְהֶם, אֵינוּ חַיָּב עַל אַחַת מֵהֶם מִשּׁוֹם עֶרְוָה כְּלָל.

יב דִּין תּוֹרָה, שֶׁמֻּתָּר לַגֵּר שֶׁיִּשָּׂא אִמּוֹ אוֹ אֲחוֹתוֹ מֵאִמּוֹ שֶׁנִּתְגַּיְּרוּ; אֲבָל חֲכָמִים אָסְרוּ דָּבָר זֶה, כְּדֵי שֶׁלֹּא יֹאמְרוּ בָּאוּ מִקְּדֻשָּׁה חֲמוּרָה לִקְדֻשָּׁה קַלָּה, שֶׁאֶמֶשׁ הָיְתָה זוֹ אֲסוּרָה לוֹ, וְהַיּוֹם מֻתֶּרֶת. וְכֵן גֵּר שֶׁבָּא עַל אִמּוֹ אוֹ אֲחוֹתוֹ וְהִיא בְּגֵיוּתָהּ, הֲרֵי זֶה כְּבָא עַל הַנָּכְרִית.

יג כֵּיצַד דִּין הַגֵּרִים בָּעֲרָיוֹת שֶׁלִּשְׁאֵר בָּשָׂר: אִם הָיָה נָשׂוּי כִּשְׁהוּא גּוֹי לְאִמּוֹ אוֹ לַאֲחוֹתוֹ, וְנִתְגַּיְּרוּ--מַפְרִישִׁין אוֹתָן, כְּמוֹ שֶׁבֵּאַרְנוּ; וְאִם הָיָה נָשׂוּי לִשְׁאָר עֲרָיוֹת, וְנִתְגַיַּר הוּא וְאִשְׁתּוֹ--אֵין מַפְרִישִׁין אוֹתָן. גֵּר אָסוּר בִּשְׁאֵר הָאֵם אַחַר שֶׁנִּתְגַּיַּר, מִדִּבְרֵי סוֹפְרִים. וּמֻתָּר בִּשְׁאֵר הָאָב, אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁיּוֹדֵעַ בַּוַּדַּאי שֶׁזֶּה שְׁאֵרוֹ מֵאָבִיו, כְּגוֹן תְּאוֹמִים, שֶׁדָּבָר בָּרוּר שֶׁאָבִיו שֶׁלְּזֶה הוּא אָבִיו שֶׁלְּזֶה; וְאַף עַל פִּי כֵן, לֹא גָזְרוּ עַל שְׁאֵר אָבִיו. לְפִיכָּךְ נוֹשֵׂא הַגֵּר אֵשֶׁת אָחִיו מֵאָבִיו, וְאֵשֶׁת אֲחִי אָבִיו, וְאֵשֶׁת אָבִיו, וְאֵשֶׁת בְּנוֹ, אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁנִּשֵּׂאת לְאָחִיו אוֹ לְאָבִיו אוֹ לַאֲחִי אָבִיו אוֹ לִבְנוֹ אַחַר שֶׁנִּתְגַּיְּרוּ; וְכֵן אֲחוֹת אִמּוֹ מֵאָבִיהָ, וַאֲחוֹתוֹ מֵאָבִיו, וּבִתּוֹ שֶׁנִּתְגַּיְּרָה--מֻתֶּרֶת לוֹ. אֲבָל אֵינוּ נוֹשֵׂא לֹא אֲחוֹתוֹ מֵאִמּוֹ, וְלֹא אֲחוֹת אִמּוֹ מֵאִמָּהּ, וְלֹא אֵשֶׁת אָחִיו מֵאִמּוֹ שֶׁנְּשָׂאָהּ אָחִיו מֵאִמּוֹ אַחַר שֶׁנִּתְגַּיַּר; אֲבָל אִם נְשָׂאָהּ אָחִיו כִּשְׁהוּא גּוֹי, הֲרֵי זוֹ מֻתֶּרֶת לוֹ.

יד שְׁנֵי אַחִים תְּאוֹמִים שֶׁהָיְתָה הוֹרָתָן שֶׁלֹּא בִּקְדֻשָּׁה, וְלִידָתָן בִּקְדֻשָּׁה--חַיָּבִין מִשּׁוֹם אֵשֶׁת אָח.

טו הַנּוֹשֵׂא גִּיּוֹרֶת וּבִתָּהּ הַגִּיּוֹרֶת, אוֹ שְׁתֵּי אֲחָיוֹת מִן הָאֵם--יֵשֵׁב עִם אַחַת מֵהֶן, וּמְגָרֵשׁ הַשְּׁנִיָּה; נָשָׂא גִּיּוֹרֶת וּמֵתָה--הֲרֵי זֶה מֻתָּר לִשָּׂא אִמָּהּ אוֹ בִּתָּהּ, שֶׁלֹּא גָזְרוּ אֵלָא בְּחַיֵּיהֶן. וּמֻתָּר אָדָם לִשָּׂא שְׁתֵּי אֲחָיוֹת גִּיּוֹרוֹת מִן הָאָב, שֶׁלֹּא גָזְרוּ בִּשְׁאֵר הָאָב, כְּמוֹ שֶׁבֵּאַרְנוּ.

טז הַשְּׁנִיּוֹת כֻּלָּן, לֹא גָזְרוּ עֲלֵיהֶן בַּגֵּרִים. לְפִיכָּךְ מֻתָּר הַגֵּר לִשָּׂא אֵם אִמּוֹ; וְנוֹשֵׂא אָדָם גִּיּוֹרֶת וְאֵם אֵם אִמָּהּ, אוֹ בַּת בַּת בִּתָּהּ. וְכֵן שְׁאָר הַשְּׁנִיּוֹת.

יז הָעֶבֶד מֻתָּר לִשָּׂא אִמּוֹ כִּשְׁהוּא עֶבֶד, וְאֵין צָרִיךְ לוֹמַר בִּתּוֹ וַאֲחוֹתוֹ וְכַיּוֹצֶא בָּהֶן--שֶׁכְּבָר יָצָא מִכְּלַל גּוֹיִים, וְאֵין הָעֲרָיוֹת הָאֲסוּרוֹת עַל הַגּוֹיִים אֲסוּרוֹת עָלָיו, וְלֹא בָא לִכְלַל יִשְׂרָאֵל, כְּדֵי שֶׁיֵּאָסְרוּ עָלָיו עֲרָיוֹת הָאֲסוּרוֹת עַל הַגֵּרִים.

יח וְיֵרָאֶה לִי, שְׁאִם בָּא הָעֶבֶד עַל זָכוּר וּבְהֵמָה, יֵהָרֵגוּ, וְשֶׁאִסּוּר שְׁתֵּי עֲרָיוֹת אֵלּוּ שׁוֹוֶה בְּכָל הָאָדָם.

יט עֲבָדִים שֶׁנִּשְׁתַּחְרְרוּ, הֲרֵי הֶן כְּגֵרִים: כָּל שֶׁאָסוּר לַגֵּרִים, אָסוּר לָהֶן; וְכָל הַמֻּתָּר לַגֵּרִים, מֻתָּר לָהֶן. נוֹתֵן אָדָם שִׁפְחָתוֹ לְעַבְדּוֹ, אוֹ לְעֶבֶד חֲבֵרוֹ; וּמוֹסֵר שִׁפְחָה אַחַת לִשְׁנֵי עֲבָדִים לְכַתְּחִלָּה, וְאֵינָן צְרִיכִין שׁוּם דָּבָר אֵלָא הֲרֵי הֶן כַּבְּהֵמוֹת. וְשִׁפְחָה שְׁהִיא מְיֻחֶדֶת לְעֶבֶד זֶה אוֹ שְׁאֵינָהּ מְיֻחֶדֶת, אַחַת הִיא--לְפִי שְׁאֵין אִישׁוּת אֵלָא לְיִשְׂרָאֵל, אוֹ לַגּוֹיִים עַל הַגּוֹיִים; אֲבָל לֹא לַעֲבָדִים עַל הָעֲבָדִים, וְלֹא לַעֲבָדִים עַל יִשְׂרָאֵל.

Laws of Issurei Bi'ah, Chapter 14

1. How are righteous converts accepted? When one comes to convert, and they investigate him and find no ulterior motive, they say to him: "What have you seen that you have come to convert? Do you not know that Israel in these times are afflicted, oppressed, downtrodden and harried, and sufferings come upon them?" If he says, "I know, and I am worthy," they accept him immediately.

2. They inform him of the fundamentals of the faith, which are the unity of G‑d and the prohibition of idolatry, and they speak at length on this. They inform him of some of the lighter mitzvos and some of the more stringent mitzvos, and they do not speak at length on this. They inform him of the sin of leket, shichechah and pe'ah (the gleanings, forgotten sheaves and corner of the field left for the poor) and of maaser ani (the tithe for the poor). They inform him of the punishment for the mitzvos. How? They say to him: "Know that until you came to this faith, if you ate chelev (forbidden fat), you were not punishable by kares; if you desecrated Shabbos, you were not punishable by stoning. But now, after you convert, if you eat chelev, you are punishable by kares; if you desecrate Shabbos, you are punishable by stoning." They do not burden him with too much, nor are they exacting with him, lest they cause him to be driven away and turn him from a good path to a bad path. For at first a person is drawn only with pleasing, gentle words, as it says, "בְּחַבְלֵי אָדָם אֶמְשְׁכֵם" ("I drew them with cords of a man," Hoshea 11:4), and afterwards "בַּעֲבֹתוֹת אַהֲבָה" ("with bands of love," ibid.).

3. Just as they inform him of the punishment for the mitzvos, so they inform him of the reward for the mitzvos. They inform him that through the fulfillment of these mitzvos he will merit the life of the World to Come, and that there is no completely righteous person except one possessed of wisdom who fulfills these mitzvos and knows them.

4. They say to him: "Know that the World to Come is stored away only for the righteous, and they are Israel. That you see Israel in distress in this world—it is good stored away for them, for they cannot receive an abundance of good in this world like the nations, lest their hearts become haughty and they go astray and lose the reward of the World to Come, as it says, 'וַיִּשְׁמַן יְשֻׁרוּן וַיִּבְעָט' ('Yeshurun grew fat and kicked,' Devarim 32:15).

5. "The Holy One, blessed be He, does not bring an abundance of retribution upon them, so that they will not perish; rather, all the nations will be destroyed, and they will endure." They speak at length on this, in order to endear him. If he changes his mind and does not wish to accept, he goes his way. If he accepts, they do not delay him, but circumcise him immediately; and if he was already circumcised, they draw from him the blood of the covenant (hatafas dam bris). They wait until he is completely healed, and afterwards they immerse him.

6. Three stand over him, and they inform him a second time of some of the lighter mitzvos and some of the more stringent mitzvos while he stands in the water. If it is a woman, women seat her in the water up to her neck, and the judges are outside. They inform her of some of the lighter mitzvos and some of the more stringent mitzvos while she sits in the water; afterwards she immerses in their presence, and they turn their faces away and leave, so that they do not see her when she comes up out of the water.

7. Who is a ger toshav (resident alien)? A non-Jew who has accepted upon himself not to worship idols, together with the other mitzvos that the descendants of Noach were commanded, and was neither circumcised nor immersed. He is accepted, and he is one of the pious of the nations of the world. Why is he called toshav (resident)? Because we are permitted to let him reside among us in Eretz Yisrael, as we explained in the Laws of Avodah Zarah.

8. A ger toshav is accepted only at a time when the Yovel (Jubilee) is in effect. But in our times, even if he accepted the entire Torah except for one detail, he is not accepted.

9. A slave acquired from non-Jews is not asked, "What have you seen that you have come?" Rather, they say to him, "Do you wish to enter the category of the slaves of Israel and to be among the fit, or not?" If he wishes, they inform him of the fundamentals of the faith and some of the lighter and more stringent mitzvos, their punishment and their reward, just as they inform the convert; they immerse him like a convert, and inform him while he is in the water. If he does not wish to accept, the master bears with him for up to twelve months and then sells him to non-Jews; it is forbidden to keep him longer than that. If he stipulated with him at the outset that he would not be circumcised or immersed, but would be like a ger toshav, he may keep him in his servitude as a ger toshav; but such a slave is kept only at a time when the Yovel is in effect.

10. For non-Jews, the only women forbidden as ervah are his mother, his father's wife, his sister from his mother, a married woman, a male, and an animal, as will be explained in the Laws of Kings and Their Wars; but the other arayos are permitted to them.

11. A convert who has converted and a slave who has been freed is like a newborn child. All the blood relatives he had while he was a non-Jew or a slave are not considered blood relatives; and if he and they converted, he is not liable on account of any of them for ervah at all.

12. By Torah law, a convert is permitted to marry his mother or his sister from his mother who converted. But the Sages forbade this, so that people will not say, "They have come from a stringent holiness to a lighter holiness," for yesterday this woman was forbidden to him and today she is permitted. Likewise, a convert who had relations with his mother or sister while she was still a non-Jew is like one who had relations with a non-Jewish woman.

13. What is the law of converts regarding the arayos of blood relatives? If while a non-Jew he was married to his mother or his sister, and they converted, they are separated, as we have explained. If he was married to one of the other arayos, and he and his wife converted, they are not separated. A convert is forbidden, after he converts, to his relatives through his mother by the words of the Sofrim. He is permitted to his relatives through his father, even though he knows for certain that this is his relative through his father—for example, twins, where it is clear that the father of one is the father of the other; nevertheless, they did not decree regarding his relatives through his father. Therefore a convert may marry the wife of his brother from his father, the wife of his father's brother, his father's wife, and his son's wife, even if she was married to his brother, his father, his father's brother or his son after they converted. Likewise, his mother's sister from her father, his sister from his father, and his daughter who converted are permitted to him. But he may not marry his sister from his mother, nor his mother's sister from her mother, nor the wife of his brother from his mother whom his brother from his mother married after he converted; but if his brother married her while still a non-Jew, she is permitted to him.

14. Two twin brothers who were conceived not in holiness but born in holiness are liable on account of a brother's wife.

15. One who married a convert and her daughter who is a convert, or two sisters from the same mother, keeps one of them and divorces the second. If he married a convert and she died, he is permitted to marry her mother or her daughter, for they decreed only during their lifetime. A man is permitted to marry two convert sisters from the same father, for they did not decree regarding relatives through the father, as we have explained.

16. Regarding all the sheniyos (secondary forbidden relatives), they did not decree concerning converts. Therefore a convert is permitted to marry his mother's mother; and a man may marry a convert and her mother's mother's mother, or her daughter's daughter's daughter; and likewise the other sheniyos.

17. A slave is permitted to marry his mother while he is a slave, and all the more so his daughter, his sister and the like. For he has already left the category of non-Jews, so the arayos forbidden to non-Jews are not forbidden to him; and he has not entered the category of Israel, so that the arayos forbidden to converts should be forbidden to him.

18. It appears to me that if a slave has relations with a male or with an animal, they are executed, for the prohibition of these two arayos applies equally to all mankind.

19. Freed slaves are like converts: whatever is forbidden to converts is forbidden to them, and whatever is permitted to converts is permitted to them. A man may give his shifchah to his slave or to his fellow's slave, and may hand over one shifchah to two slaves even at the outset; they require nothing, but are like animals. A shifchah designated for this slave and one not designated are the same, for there is no marriage (ishus) except for Israel, or for non-Jews among non-Jews; but not for slaves among slaves, nor for slaves with Israel.

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