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1. The Paradox of Parshas Chayei Sarah’s Title

The Parsha begins with the words Vayihyu chayei Sarah—and the life of Sarah was (Bereishis 23:1). Yet, immediately after, the Torah describes Sarah’s passing, Avraham’s mourning and eulogizing her, and his purchase of a burial plot. The entire narrative focuses on events following Sarah’s death. The Rebbe points out this apparent contradiction: why is the Parsha named “the life of Sarah” when its content centers on her passing and what follows?

2. True Life Revealed After Passing

The Rebbe explains that a person’s true life becomes evident only after their passing. During one’s lifetime, it is not always clear what their impact or legacy will be. Only after a person departs this world can we truly assess the meaning and value of their life by observing what remains—the influence they left behind, the values they instilled, and how their presence continues to shape those around them.

3. The Midrash’s Metaphor: Life as a Journey

The Midrash offers a metaphor comparing life to a boat journey. When a boat leaves the dock, there is much celebration and excitement, but no one knows what dangers or challenges may lie ahead at sea. In contrast, when a boat returns safely to port, there is little fanfare, though this is truly the time for celebration—the journey was completed successfully. Similarly, when a child is born there is great joy, but no one knows what kind of life lies ahead. At death there is mourning, yet it is only then that we can see if the journey was successful and worthy of celebration.

4. Legacy as Continued Life: The Teaching of Tzaddikim

This idea is echoed in the words of Chazal regarding Yaakov Avinu. The Gemara notes that by Yaakov it does not say explicitly that he died; rather it says he expired (vayigva). The Gemara explains that Yaakov did not truly die—since his descendants are alive and continue his path, he too lives on through them. This principle applies to all tzaddikim—righteous individuals whose teachings, spirit, and influence persist in this world even after their physical passing.

5. Rashi on Sarah’s Years: A Life Without Sin or Blemish

Rashi comments on the unusual phrasing in the verse: “Meah shanah, v’esrim shanah, v’sheva shanim”—100 years, 20 years, 7 years—with each age group followed by “years.” Rashi explains that this repetition teaches us about Sarah’s character: at 100 she was as free from sin as at 20 (since before 20 one is not punished by beis din shel matah—a human court [CHECK: verify against the audio; the age-twenty rule ordinarily concerns the Heavenly court]), and at 20 she was as beautiful as at 7. This emphasizes her purity and perfection throughout her life stages.

6. Recognizing True Life Through Legacy and Yahrzeit

The lesson applies not only to Sarah but to all people. On a yahrzeit—the anniversary of a loved one’s passing—we remember and mourn them but also celebrate their ongoing legacy if they left behind children or students who continue in their ways: davening, performing good deeds, living with Torah and mitzvos. This continued influence demonstrates that their “life” endures beyond physical existence.